I Confess…

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I confess

…I can’t believe it is only Wednesday, I am so exhausted! The month of May is one of the busiest times for us at work and it is really taking a lot out of me.

…I am putting Travel Wednesday on pause for now. Since I am hosting Travel Tuesday for the next few months I want to focus on bringing you all an awesome travel post that day so tune in on Tuesday to read more about my travel story.

…I really need to get better about writing posts over the weekend but when the weather is nice out I am not going to sit inside writing all day. #sorrynotsorry

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…I have been in Iceland for almost 7 months now and am starting to feel pressure to be fluent in Icelandic. I know this is pressure I am putting on myself but I can’t help but feel like I have to learn the language or society won’t accept me. Whenever someone asks me how my Icelandic is going I want to just shout at them “I am trying, seriously lay off!” but I won’t since I know they are just asking to be nice and I am the one having a crisis about it.

…last night after work I went on a major rant to H about my day and after about 10 minutes of talking I realized that this conversation needed to be had with a girl. Girls are just so much better at venting and listening to others vent, guys no offense but you suck at it.

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…I am about to boycott all blogs that require captcha! I spend more time trying to enter the words in right than I do actually reading the blog post. My patience level for these things is quickly running out. If you have captcha please get rid of it!

…riding my bike everyday to work is starting to not be so fun. In fact riding my bike everywhere since it is my only means of transportation is starting to get really old! And riding your bike with all your grocery’s basically just sucks, I can’t even be positive about it any more I miss my car.

…at least once a day I get an email response from someone who completely spells my name wrong. How hard is it to just type out the same name I just signed the email off with!!!

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…Parks and Recreation is one of the best shows I have watched. H and I have been spending most of our nights lately watching a few episodes. They never fail to crack me up!

…last night H and I were talking about what I wanted to do for my birthday at the end of the month. I started thinking about all the fun plans I would make if I was back at home with my friends and family and started to get really sad that I won’t be home to celebrate with them. Now I feel like I really need to make some awesome plans for the day otherwise I fear I am going to spend most of my birthday dealing with homesickness and that is no fun.

…the weather back in Oregon has been beautiful for this time of year. Every time I see someone post a photo in the sunshine or comment about how wonderful the weather is I get so jealous that I am not back home. Iceland can we please turn the heat up a bit?

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I am not cranky but it sure felt good to get that off my chest! And to end things on a positive note today at work we are working on filling out a grant for our office to visit Spain this year as a “work trip”. I sure do love my job!

Question of the Day?
Anything you need to get off your chest today?

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  • Pamela

    Ugh, girl I feel you there. I’m exhausted already this week/month too! There isn’t enough coffee in the world to get me going right now! I’m the same way, I never post over the weekend! That’s my time to enjoy the outdoors, not stare at my computer! ;) And yes, I think we should all boycott blogs that still require captcha! I think I’m going prematurely blind from it!

    <3, Pamela
    sequinsandseabreezes.blogspot.com

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Seriously coffee just isn’t cutting it anymore! It is nice to have a break from blogging over the weekend to just get out and enjoy!

  • http://hemborgwife.wordpress.com/ Bailie @ The Hemborg Wife

    Ahhh big hugs to the language thing it just plain sucks sometimes. Also you are one step ahead of us because neither of us have a bike so we walk everywhere!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Thank you, the language thing really does suck sometimes!

  • http://talesofawannabevagabond-jackie.blogspot.tw/ Jackie

    So… I legitimately thought it was Thursday all day today and during my last period my students were like, “Ms. L, you know tomorrow is Thursday, right? Cause you keep talking about Friday” and I was like NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Basically, I am shattered that I have to hear my alarm clock go off twice more this week instead of just once.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Ugh I hate when that happens! I can’t believe it was only Wednesday it really felt like it should have been Thursday!

  • http://www.travel-vanberry.blogspot.com/ Van @ On the Road again

    Totally with you on the captcha thing! I could rant over and over about it every Tuesday! :D hope you’re feeling better now and that weekend comes soon! ;)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      A weekend sleeping in will do just the trick to get caught up from this busy week:) Ugh captcha has been pooping up everywhere lately for me, it is so annoying!

  • http://esthernovich.blogspot.com.es/ esthernovich

    The ranting to guys things…totally feel you on that. They just don´t get it sometimes.
    And the Spain trip, sounds so exciting! do you know where? If you visit Madrid I could recommend some places to see if you want :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Guys really just don’t get it, even if they try! We would go to Barcelona, I would love to visit anywhere in Spain!

  • http://www.lifeinprogress.ca/ Kathy@Vodka and Soda

    i don’t even bother with blogs that have captcha. which is too bad because some posts are so awesome but once i see that captcha, i move on. NO MORE CAPTCHA PEOPLE!!!

    thanks for linking up!
    -kathy
    Vodka and Soda

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      I am about to boycott all blogs with captcha. Love this link up glad I finally got to spill my confessions!

  • http://anothercleanslate.com/ Kate @ Another Clean Slate

    So awesome if you get to visit Spain! I wonder if all the captcha people even know they have it? Hopefully they are just clueless and not being annoying on purpose!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      I really hope we get to go to Spain would be so fun. I wonder the same thing, maybe we should tell them that captcha is driving us crazy, if only I could actually comment on those blogs than I would tell them!

  • http://voyageofthemeemee.com/ Amanda MeeMee

    Captcha needs to be killed with fire.
    I don’t feel bad that you have a busy month at work because you have all that paid time off in the summer - THAT’S WHAT YOU GET DAMMIT! ;P

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Seriously, killed with fire is a great way to put it. Haha what no sympathy headed my way :) I know I have it pretty good at my job I won’t complain too much.

  • http://confuzzledom.wordpress.com/ bevchen

    I am also exhausted, and I’ve only been back at work one day!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Ugh this week is seriously dragging I can’t wait to sleep in this weekend!

  • Kristen Warren

    if you are tired in that photo, thats not fair. haha. gorgeous lady!
    uch, rants with guys are so stupid. they either dont understand or they try and fix it, and im like - no, no fix - just listen!
    im so over captcha. i only comment on my faves but i want to tell them to take it off. i mena, i have seen at least one blog a week complain about it, how is it still alive?!?!
    homesickness. i feel ya. it hits me at the weirdest times. like when hubby wont come shopping with me, and my mum always would. :(

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Haha thank you:) Homesickness does really hit at the weirdest times, so annoying!

  • Rachel Murphree

    I’m sorry about the homesickness. And yeas, what is up with CAPTCHA? I think that Blogger defaults to it, so I feel bad for brand new bloggers who don’t know better, especially because they then end up on the receiving end of my silent wrath! And yes, oh my god I just want this week to be over, and for all of the papers to be graded already. Ugh!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      I am with you, I just want this week to be over with already so I can sleep in and be lazy all weekend!

  • http://chiclittlethrills.blogspot.com/ Lisa

    Oh that sweet captcha kills me! I know we all think the same thing when we come across those blogs that have it! Why oh why? lol!

    Lisa,xo
    http://chiclittlethrills.blogspot.com/

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Haha I am glad it is not just me who can’t seem to ever get those words right that captcha gives us!

  • http://agirlandhertravels.com/ Polly

    Fucking captcha. I feel ya, girl. Also, I think you’ve inspired me to re-watch Parks and Rec. God, that show.

    For me, I’m stressing about finding a job. We agreed we’d travel for a nice long while, but now some opportunities have come up and I just don’t know what to doooo. Struggles.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Parks and Rec is seriously the highlight of my day, I am hooked on that show. That is awesome about opportunities coming up, I know how it is to be stressed about finding a job. Have you guys decided on where you want to settle down for a bit or you still considering all your options. Adult decisions are so hard!

      • http://agirlandhertravels.com/ Polly

        Still nowhere near deciding. Job applications open in several countries nowhere near each other. Much stress!

  • http://Girl-Meets-Globe.com/ Tina @ Girl-Meets-Globe

    I hate captcha with a passion!! You definitely need to do something big and fun for your birthday!!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      I agree, I think a day full of fun needs to be planned for my birthday!

  • http://heleneinbetween.com/ Helene

    being fluent in icelandic sounds like quite the feat to me! and so awesome that you love your job!!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      It really is, I hope one day I will be at least semi-fluent in Icelandic. Life is so much better when you like your job!

  • http://djseaward.tumblr.com/ Cynthia

    Gah I know what you mean, re: northwest weather lately. It makes me big time homesick when the weather is nice there and crap here. Can you plan a birthday weekend trip or a full day of just fun stuff like shopping, lunch, etc? Planning a day of only things I want to do can make for a great birthday, no matter where you are :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      The weather has been amazing back at home while here it has been cold and rainy. Really makes me miss home! Lucky for me we have a public holiday on my birthday so I have to whole day off to spoil myself. I think some fun plans will have to happen!

      • http://djseaward.tumblr.com/ Cynthia

        Perfect! My bday is a public holiday too and it just makes it that much better… like you belong in Iceland to celebrate your birthday there. Even better to have other people off work too to join you in your birthday adventures!

  • Krystal R.

    People spell my name wrong daily!!! Its Krystal .. not crystal, chrystal, Krystle … or any other variation of the word. I mean I have emailed someone from my work email and they replied with the wrong spelling. Helloooooo its in the email address! lol

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Seriously it drives me nuts! How hard is it to just copy and paste the name from the email if you can’t spell it!

  • http://www.rhymeandribbons.com/ Amanda @ Rhyme & Ribbons

    I feel ya. I am pretty much constantly tired, even though we just had a three day weekend. I hope you make awesome birthday plans (I know you will as May 19 is the best calendar day of the year ;) ) x

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Ugh it sounds like we need a really long vacation, I hate feeling so tired! Do you have some awesome plans for your birthday??? It really is the best day of the year!

  • http://www.tothedayslikethis.com/ Sammy Dorn

    Such a pet hate when someone spells a name wrong that is IN THE EMAIL. It’s not hard at all! Also, it took me about 10 goes the other day to post a comment on someone’s blog because of the bloody captcha - get rid of them I say!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Seriously! It has been driving me crazy. Especially since I take the extra time to make sure I spell their name properly and then they don’t even bother. Captcha is just the worst and I feel like lately so many blogs I have been going to comment on have it, ugh no more captcha!

  • http://Buttonsandbirdcages.com Miche Renee

    I couldn’t agree more about girls being better to vent to - we just ARE better! Just discovering this I confess wednesdays thing, very fun!

    Miche from Buttons and Birdcages

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Girls just get it and guys don’t follow along well enough to keep up with us while we are venting! This was my first time and it was a lot of fun joining up with the Wednesday confessions!

  • http://luyoutravel.blogspot.com/ Elizabeth Georgian

    Oh my gosh spelling my name wrong! I totally feel you. I’ve been emailing back and forth with someone in a professional context for about 5 months. He keeps spelling my name Elisabeth - which I know is so close but come on!

    I’m sure you will do something great for your birthday! You seem like you’ve been meeting a lot of people and you have H to hang out with :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      I am with you though, even if it is a small spelling error I think it is disrespectful to not take the time to make sure you have the name spelled right!

  • http://www.adventuresofalondonkiwi.blogspot.com/ adventuresofalondonkiwi

    I absolutely agree about the ‘with another girl’ rant - sometimes it’s just not the same.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      It really isn’t the same!

  • http://meetatthebarre.blogspot.com/ Amanda Elizabeth

    bahahahahaha seriously it’s like I try to tell him a funny story or something blog related and I just get a blank stare…..these guys I tell you! That first picture of you I mean you are so gorgeous even when trying to be funny! xoxo

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Haha they just don’t get it! Awe thanks so much:)

  • http://www.meganjoyjaunts.com/ Megan

    Rants need to be had with girls - always. Death to Captcha. And seriously with misspelling names. How hard is it to copy/paste?

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Girls really are just much better at listening to rants! And really copy/paste, it isn’t that hard!

  • http://bristolinmypocket.blogspot.co.uk/ Sara Rose

    I totally understand your frustration with captcha, it kills em!

    • http://bristolinmypocket.blogspot.co.uk/ Sara Rose

      Me*

      • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

        It is so frustrating!

  • Steph Gregerson

    Icelandic does NOT look like an easy language, so I think you can give yourself a break :) Also, Parks & Rec is my favorite. Ron Swanson makes me laugh every damn time.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Ron Swanson cracks me up as well! Icelandic is definitely not the easiest language to try and learn.

  • http://megantofrancewithlove.blogspot.com/ Megan

    Men really don’t get it do they?? I’m glad I’ve finally found a few expat girlfriends here for those moments, or for shopping definitely the shopping lol. My birthday is a month from today and hopefully we’ll find something fun to do as well, first birthday abroad, and it’s my 21st (go figure). Probably can’t expect the same level of hype as back home on that one huh :P

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      That is great that you have found some girlfriends! And it probably is true that 21 won’t be as big of a deal there for them but you will just have to do it up big!

  • Lisa @ Ameliorer la Vie

    Parks & Recreations is so hilarious! I find myself randomly thinking about Mona Lisa and Jean-Ralphio and just laughing!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Haha I find myself constantly talking about Parks and Recs to my co-workers and they just don’t get it. They really need to watch the show because there is so many funny jokes!

  • http://www.chicadeedee.com/ Dannielle @ Chic-a-DeeDee

    ahhh the captcha! Just click to approve comments if that’s your game. I have felt the same as you lately, just sort of fed up and sick of things! The not having my driving license here being one of them. Don’t worry, your Icelandic will come along, at least your trying, I think that’s the important bit.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Thanks, I am glad you see that trying is a good start! And yes I really miss being able to drive myself!

  • http://speaking-denglish.com/ Alex, Denglish Speaker

    I have so many things to comment on.

    - P&Rec is my favorite sitcom ever. I pee myself watching Leslie Knope and her shenanigans.
    - I actually still love riding my bike everywhere. There are the days that I’m in a bad mood and then it starts raining and I’m fed up, but to me it beats the heck out of taking the tram and driving in the city center would stress me out.
    - Don’t ever worry about blogging when it’s pretty outside. Remember your winter? Yeah, soak up that sun lady!
    - I’m almost at 3 years in Germany and not even close to fluency. I’ve stopped putting pressure on myself and just learn as it comes and life is SO much more relaxed. Others are in no place to judge - acculturating can be difficult enough as it is

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      I agree, Parks and Rec is just freaking amazing! I think I really hate my bike when it is gross and windy but I don’t miss having to pay for a car and my slight road rage. I like your outlook on learning the language, I need to remind myself of this when I get stressed about it!

  • http://sophieinclogs.com Sophie

    Shoot I missed this post last week. Just wanted to say: try not to feel bad about not being fluent!! I’ve been in NL two years and am definitely nowhere near fluent (and when I try to speak Dutch to people they still sometimes answer me in English - and then they complain that foreignes don’t make an effort!). I also know people who have been here way longer and still are not fluent at all - everyone learns at a different pace, and from the sounds of it you ar making a huge effort! That’s all anyone can ask for :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene Spence

      Thanks Sophie! I try and not put too much pressure on myself about the language. I so understand where your coming from about the trying thing. When I try and speak Icelandic they almost always quickly switch to English so it makes you not want to try! But hey at least we are trying!