Adding Some Color To My Icelandic Wardrobe

I have a confession to make.

It took almost two years but it is happening.

I am turning Icelandic!

Let me explain.

When I first arrived to Iceland the one thing that really stood out to me was the all black wardrobes favored by most in my new home. Then there was me, who stood out like a neon circus clown in my bright clothing. It was clear I was foreign as soon as I entered a room.

Fast forward to now, almost two years later, and what would you know, I have adopted the all black attire on an almost daily basis. Blonde hair, black clothing, pale skin, lets just say I am more than blending in now.

Another Icelandic trait I have recently picked up, my awkwardness at the attempt at small talk.

This is a big one as I usually love small talk. I worked at a coffee shop all through college, small talk was my job! But when I moved to Iceland where small talk is non-existent I slowly stopped making attempts (I was that werido who tried talking to everyone for a while) of small talk and haven’t really given it much thought since.

That is until I headed back to the states this summer.

While waiting in line at the airport minding my own business a man asked me how my travels had been. I instantly felt uncomfortable and thought, “ugh why is this stranger talking to me?” I gave a short answer and then moved away.

Right after this happened I couldn’t help but laugh as I had just experienced a situation I hear my Icelandic friends talk about all the time. They always are telling me how uncomfortable they get in the states with all the small talk. I used to think oh but it is so nice to have small chats where ever you go. And yet here I was instantly uncomfortable with small talk.

Who am I???

An awkward American in both Iceland and America that is who!

It didn’t take me long to get back into the swing of small talk when I was in the states, but each time I had one of these conversations I was very aware of how “American” they were. Small talk though, I love it and don’t think I ever will give up, maybe just keep it toned down while in Iceland.

As for my all black wardrobe, well that is an Icelandic trait that I think it here to stay!

I am loving my all black wardrobe, but after realizing how little color was in my life while back in the states this summer I am trying to make sure to add some color to my outfits.

Insert in my new Daniel Wellington watch and I now have something that is not black in my wardrobe!

Brown counts as a color right?

Fact: I have never owned a watch in my life.

A few months ago though I started the search for the perfect watch. I was set on finding the perfect “everyday” watch to add to my wardrobe.

I searched for my dream watch in every store H and I visited in the states this summer (trust me this was a lot, we had to stock up thanks to the expensive Iceland) but still no watch was to be found.

And then the lovely people at Daniel Wellington contacted me about trying out one of their watches, and after a short browse on their website I knew I found my watch.

I will admit, I was tempted to buy a black watch, but I stepped out of the box and ordered myself the beautiful brown with rose gold Classic St. Mawes.

Not even two days later my the UPS man was calling me at work, and based off our conversation, (which was in Icelandic since the UPS man refused to speak English) I was told my watch had arrived and he threw it at the door.

After our conversation I couldn’t wait to get home to see my watch (and to make sure my watch was okay!). When I got home I found my new watch safely tucked into our mailbox outside the door. Don’t ask me where I got the whole throwing the watch at the door thing. My Icelandic, it is a work in progress.

It is safe to say that my first watch is a keeper. I am in love with the classic look it adds to my outfits. And, my outfits are no longer all black! A win all around right? :)

Speaking of wins, did I mention I ran the Reykjavik half marathon this weekend?

Okay so I didn’t win the race, but I finished, and that is a win in my book! I then proceeded to wear my medal the rest of the day. That is right, I wore two colored items at once, my gold metal and my brown watch, look at me adding color to my wardrobe!

Back to my new watch.

If you are in need of some color in your life, or just need a new watch, I recommend heading over and doing some online shopping at Daniel Wellington.

And because my readers are the best if you shop at Daniel Wellington by September 15th you can get a 15% discount with the code UNLOCKINGKIKI.

Happy shopping!

Question of the Day?
Are you a watch wearer? Have you ever adopted traits from the place you live?

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  • http://www.adventurings.com Cynthia

    I had the same experience with small talk when I was in the States this summer. Day one, I walk into a Subway and everyone bombards me with “hello”s! (Ahhhhh I don’t know you, stop talking to me!) As I used to work in coffee too, I know exactly how you feel :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Right! I felt so overwhelmed at first with all of the small talk. By the end it was no problem and now I missed it:)

  • http://agirlandhertravels.com/ Polly

    Muscovites are awful at small talk. It’s either “don’t talk to me” or “we’re BFFs let’s tell each other about our whole lives”. As a person who hates talking to other people, I loved it :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I have gotten really use to not having to deal with small talk, it is quite nice:)

  • http://whattheelleblog.blogspot.com/ Elle @ WhatTheElle

    I think the UK is a slightly more colourful than the rest of Europe but I have definitely gone to the dark side as well! (Which *cough* speaking of - ASOS has a sale on black jeans at the moment) What’s the shopping like in Iceland? Similar shops to the U.S. or completely different?

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Umm, I may have to check out these black jeans you are talking about:) Shopping in Iceland is expensive! Like I avoid it at all costs. People here go traveling abroad with empty suitcases so they can go shopping:)

  • http://www.adventuresofalondonkiwi.com/ Emma @ AdventuresofaLondonKiwi

    I have the whole London view of small talk - that is it isn’t done with strangers, but with colleagues it’s all day long…!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      That sounds like a pretty good way to approach it! What is small talk like in New Zealand?

      • http://www.adventuresofalondonkiwi.com/ Emma @ AdventuresofaLondonKiwi

        More American in style to be honest!

  • Abby Smith

    I’m pretty sure we’re not so great at small talk in the UK either - it must be a European thing! I love rocking all black everything; it always looks good and you don’t need to make an effort? What’s not to love haha. Well done for completing the race! xx

    Abby | Eärendil</a

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I so agree, black just makes everything look better:) And thank you!

  • http://megancstroup.blogspot.com/ Megan @ Semi-Charmed Kind of L

    Ha, this is so funny because my mom lived in Switzerland for a little over three years, and she was most excited to move back to the US so she could TALK to people. She’s always chatting up seatmates and people in line, and people in Europe apparently just don’t do that. It’s funny that you found the same to be true! Congrats on the half, btw!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      It is definitely something I really missed when I first moved here. And I find it makes finding new friends a bit difficult since people don’t just strike up random conversations here. And thank you!

  • http://www.rhymeandribbons.com/ Amanda @ Rhyme & Ribbons

    I’ve already picked out my dream Daniel Wellington watch! Congrats on the marathon by the way! x

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Aren’t their watches dreamy!? Which one is your favorite? And thank you dear! :)

  • http://beertimewithwagner.com/ Jordan Beck Wagner

    I totally understand about small talk! I’m a huge small talker but Germany turned me into a no small talker haha. Now it is weird whenever I come home and have to small talk. Also, I’ve totally adopted German clothing trends :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Yes! Same here, I feel like I have lost my small talk skills ha.

  • http://www.fullofbeansandsausages.com/ Holly Hollyson

    Your watch is just beautiful!! People here in Canada also wear a lot of black - exactly as you are wearing here, but mostly in winter. People used to treat me differently because of my clothes, but not any more! I have totally assimilated now too :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Thanks so much Holly:) People here do tend to bring out more color in the summer, but black is still the main theme, but I kinda love it now:)

  • http://www.thebartlettsabroad.blogspot.com/ Erica @ thebartlettsabroad

    I’m often tempted to switch my wardrobe out for all black things, simply because getting dressed is faster that way ;)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      It does indeed make it much easier getting dressed;)

  • http://adventitiousviolet.com/ Camila @ AdventitiousViolet

    I’m definitely a watch wearer! So long are the awkward days of university when I would look at my phone for the time. I love wearing a watch, I have 3 nice ones, and it does add some colour and some accessory to most outfits :)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      It is so nice having a watch and not having to rely on my phone all the time for the time! I am definitely loving being a watch wearer :)

  • http://totravelandbeyond.com/ Macy Volpe

    I find myself wearing all black pretty often, I think it’s thanks for the influence of my best friend that lives in Paris. That watch is gorgeous! I have a brown leather and rose gold Michael Kors one that I love, but I would love a darker brown or black one. I have to look into those!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      It is just so easy to put together an all black outfit and look put together. Your watch sounds gorgeous, I love brown leather and rose gold combo!

  • http://southernexhilaration.com/ Caitlin @ SouthernExhilaration

    LOVE the watch. I’m in need of a new watch. I find black is a predominant color in my wardrobe, but I always have a pop of color. Whether it’s jewelry or lipstick.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Same here, I love having a pop of color with my black outfits :)

  • Cailee Joy

    Wow!! What a beautiful watch!! …and this is so fun! Honestly I’m super inspired by the “all black wardrobe” I’d really like to focus on more neutrals this fall and less POPing color like my summer wardrobe! Haha. Thanks for the inspiration!!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Thanks so much! The all black wardrobe does always look so put together I think, but I love adding some pops of color as well:)

  • http://www.seeyouinaporridge.com/ Kristen @ SYIAP

    you are hilarious. i love a good all black outfit, but i don’t think i could do it all the time. i will say that when i moved to america, it took me SO long to get used to people talking to me all the time everywhere. we do have small talk and whatnot at home, especially like businesses and customers but not with strangers. like, i’d expect the girl at the coffee shop to talk to me, but not a stranger in an airport line. i know people say we are friendly and all that, i really don’t think thats true haha. i mean, we can be, but for the most part, especially in the city, we are always on guard and weary of strangers. or maybe that’s just me ;)

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I think when (and if) we move to the states it will take me a long time to adjust to the small talk again as well. H always says he had the hardest time in Australia when everyone would ask, “hows it goin?” he said he never knew what to say ha. So basically he is going to have issues in the states with small talk if that stressed him out.

  • https://inspiringagemini.wordpress.com/ Rachel

    This is such a fun read, especially since I am very bright and exotic with my wardrobe. It would be very hard for me to stick with black - although they say its a slimming color!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I used to wear so many bright colors, but now I feel so strange when I have something bright on. It is funny how quickly your surroundings can affect you!

  • Eric Brink

    Nice fashion, although that might be considered a little goth in Portland. :) The watch is very nice, but I like the style of your ring even more.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Yes, this is definitely much more European style than what you would see in Portland :)

  • http://writergirlm.com/ Martha

    I think all black looks super-cute. And you have the red lips and nails, so there’s some color there! :) I love the watch! I think I’ve owned a couple in my life but have never really been a “watch” person. I suppose at some point I should shop for a nice grown-up one.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I am a big fan of the red lips, it is a must with my all black outfits:) I never have been a watch person either but I will say I am loving mine now!

  • http://www.beingleanna.com/ Leanna @ Being Leanna

    I am a BIG watch wearer. I feel naked when I don’t have one one. I’m loving your new watch, the rose gold is such a nice touch. Leather bands are my favorite too. I might just have to go take a little look at their site!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I am in love with having a watch now! I think I will always be a watch wearer, so nice not having to rely on pulling out my phone all the time to see the time.

  • http://www.welcometogermerica.com/ Courtney Martin

    I love the watch! I have also never owned a nice watch, but you are really making me want one… Also, that one is so classic-looking that you know it will last forever.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Thanks so much! This is my first “adult watch” and I am loving it!

  • http://letuswanderlust.com/ Carly @ Let Us Wanderlust

    You are so cute! Hahaha I love that story about small talk - us Australians do it all the time too! Sometimes I kinda wish it wasn’t such a thing because sometimes its hard to just find some peace and quiet haha. I love your watch and think the choice of brown brand is perfect! Will definitely check out Daniel Wellington now! x

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Thanks so much Carly :) Small talk is such a funny thing, but it is quite nice as well :) Yes, def check out Daniel Wellington I love their watches!