Blogging Is Constant

Blogger in Iceland

“Blogging is constant” - Some chick on the E show Fashion Bloggers

A few months ago I caught the commercial for the E show Fashion Bloggers. I know, totally late to the game on this one, but it takes awhile for things to reach this little island I live on. Anyways, as I was watching the commercial of these bloggers describing their lives one thing they all said, it has stuck with me, and I think it is the perfect way to describe this hobby I am hooked on.

Blogging is constant.

If I were asked to describe blogging I couldn’t have said it better myself. Rarely does a day go by when I am not working on something for the blog. From posting on social media to taking pictures for new posts. Writing those new post while at the same time trying to come up with ideas for more posts.

The blogging to do list is never ending.

The last few months I have dealt with what feels like never ending blogging issues. From posts being deleted to plugins not working it has been one frustrating thing after another. The thought of just pulling the plug on the blog and stepping away crossed my mind a dozen times.

One very frustrating night in the midst of a slight meltdown over my blog where I am sure I did some form of a teenage Kaelene outburst I was just ready to give up. My Viking, who had the pleasure of witnessing this meltdown, ever so calmly said, “okay then just quit.”

I wish someone was around to capture my face. All I know is I made some sound that was between a grunt and a sigh that I am sure I made frequently during my teenage years while I said, “I can’t quit, I love blogging.”

And that was the when it hit me.

I love blogging.

And all that other stuff just doesn’t matter.

Hotel Ragna, IcelandIn my element, a glass of wine in one hand, a camera in the other, blogger life can be pretty great!

Sometimes it is tough to not get caught up in the pageviews and number of comments, sometimes you forget to write for yourself and you start writing what you think others want to read. But when I write posts just for the pageviews and comments, well those are the posts that I don’t really like myself, and those posts that I write just for pageviews tend to be the most difficult ones to get the words out. But when I write just for myself, well the words seem to just flow and I am reminded all over again why I love blogging.

With my little blog baby turning two this week (such a proud mom) I think now is the perfect time for a little reminder to myself of those aspects I love about blogging. These reasons are what keep me coming back to this blog of mine even during those frustrating times.

I love how it challenges me
Each week, really each day, I am faced with a new list of things to do for the blog. New html code I want to learn, new social media trends to look up, new tutorials to read, not to mention all the daily tasks of running a blog, everyday is full of lessons. And you know what, I love it, it is so much better than just sitting on the couch binge watching Empire (although that is important in my life too) and it keeps that creative side of my brain happy.

I have friends all over the world
Blogging friends count as real friends in my mind! Expat life can get a bit lonely at times, especially in the beginning. When I first moved to Iceland and discovered the world of expat blogs I felt like I had found my own personal support group.

Following so many great bloggers on their own amazing adventures I feel like I get to travel the world with them. From seeing beautiful places in their pictures to relating to their struggles of life abroad it is such a wonderful community to be apart of. And, the real bonus, when I get to meet them!

I have an online journal I will always cherish
These past two years have been full of adventures, from moving to a new country to traveling around Europe, I feel so lucky for all the amazing things I have gotten to experience. Even better, I have all of those adventures documented here on this blog for me to easily look back on and remember exactly how I felt at that time. Reading some of my posts from my first few months in Iceland, those are my favorites, and always a great reminder for how much I have adjusted to Iceland in the past few years.

I get to share my adventures with my loved ones back home
While I wish I could bring all my loved ones with me on every adventure I have yet to figure out how to do this, so for now sharing my adventures on the blog for them to read will have to do. It can be hard sometimes talking with loved ones back home and not having them really know what your life and surroundings look like. By sharing these things on my blog it has helped me feel more connected with those back home, and it makes it easier to be like, “oh you know that trip we took last week?” and my parents will be like, “ya we read about it on your blog.” Until I get all my loved ones over here my blog will have to do for bringing them on my adventures with me.

Unlocking Kiki, BloggingA throwback to the early days of blogging in my favorite cafe

A whole new world has now opened up to me thanks to my blog. I have found a community that I can completely relate to on this crazy expat adventure, learned about cultures from all over the world through my blogging friends posts, and gained confidence in knowing that my abroad meltdowns are totally normal and my blogging friends don’t think I am crazy (at least I think so). The benefits blogging has brought me, they are more than worth all those hours I have spent in front of the computer and the many meltdowns I have had.

Tis the season to be thankful, and I am so thankful for this space of mine. Thanks to all my readers for making this blogging adventure such a wonderful experience. And for all the advice you all have given me. I hope you all keep following along with my adventures, and keep having amazing adventures of your own!

PS: Don’t forget to enter my giveaway for your chance to try some tasty Icelandic treats!

Question of the Day?
What is your favorite hobby? What are you thankful for this year?

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  • http://www.heartmybackpack.com/ Silvia

    I had zero interest in travel blogs before my friend persuaded me to start one with her, but since then I’ve become obsessed! I had no idea blogging came with such a lovely community, but now I feel like it’s essential for my expat sanity, haha. I’m glad you didn’t give into the meltdowns and quit! I’ve come close many times myself.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Me either! I never even thought about the community part until I started blogging, now somedays I think its the only thing that keeps me coming back I love it!

  • http://www.therachaelway.com/ Rachael | The Rachael Way

    I feel the exact same way about blogging- there’s always things that I am doing for it but I genuinely love it. It’s a hobby I truly enjoy and one I like investing time and money into.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      We must really love it cause it sure does take a lot of time! It is so addicting :)

  • Tanya

    Like any job - we all have days that we just want to give up and not go to work - the point is to keep going because - that too shall pass.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      So very true!

  • http://www.rhymeandribbons.com/ Amanda @ Rhyme & Ribbons

    I feel exactly the same way about blogging. PS- please never quit ;) xx

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      You either!

  • http://www.kati-rose.com/ Kati Rose

    I had a very similar realization and it’s really wonderful when blogging is put into perspective. I love this no matter the outcome and at the end of the day I just need to remember all the wonderful things I get out of it - even if it’s not page views and notoriety.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      So very true, when I just focus on the things I love about it then I could never imagine not blogging :)

  • http://totravelandbeyond.com/ Macy Volpe

    This is such a great post! Blogging is something that not everyone understands, but it means so much to those that actually care about what they are doing.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      So very true, I am so glad to have my blogging friends who get it:)

  • http://voyageofthemeemee.com/ Amanda MeeMee

    “Sometimes it is tough to not get caught up in the pageviews and number of comments…” I completely agree. You know how I write… I don’t give a shit about how people see me - BUT at the same time, I still feel validated when I get a lot of hits or comments because it just FEELS GOOD TO BE LIKED, NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT YOU’RE DOING. Totally get it.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Well I freaking love how you write so keep that shit coming! It is a bummer when bloggers I use to enjoy go for a more branding niche approach, I usually peace out on those.

  • http://www.seeyouinaporridge.com/ Kristen @ SYIAP

    wonderfully said girl. also, please don’t ever quit because i love your blog too much ;) haha but seriously. i’m glad you love it!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Same to you girl!

  • http://www.twofeet-oneworld.com/ Jessi @2feet1world

    Great post Kaelene! I agree, sometimes I feel like stepping away but I just can’t imagine life without the blog. I love how much my writing and photography have developed, and more than that I love all the amazing people I have met, either online or in person, through the blog. I can’t really imagine stopping now!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Thanks so much Jessi :) It really is amazing to watch how much the writing and photography has changed on my blog, and now we have such amazing memories of our travels :)

      • http://www.twofeet-oneworld.com/ Jessi @2feet1world

        Yep, you can’t beat it!

  • http://treasuretromp.com/ Nicole @ Treasure Tromp

    aww, I love this! It IS constant - so my strategy has been to quit periodically when I’m overwhelmed ;)

    I’m so happy that you’re around in this blog world :)

    also, I have never heard of this Fashion Blogger show. Life without cable is rough.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I use to always think I needed to spend my free time on the weekends blogging, but then I just got totally burnt out! It is important to have a balance for sure with it. So happy you are in this blogging community too!

  • http://www.thesunnysideofthis.com/ Isabel @ TheSunnySideofThis

    This is so true, blogging is just the best. I am actually listening to Man Repeller’s podcast with Karley Sciortino and it talks about creativity, writing and her blogging journey. Even the things I listen for “fun” are blog related. I could not ask for a better hobbie!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I will have to check out that podcast! Since I started blogging I am so much more open to trying creative things that I never would of thought I could do before. I just love it!

  • http://www.smalltownsandcitylights.com/ Rachel @ STCL

    This is so true! While there are certainly days where you can feel burnt out, in the end, it’s such a wonderful thing!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Completely agree Rachel :)

  • http://jasmincharlotte.com/ JasminCharlotte

    Aw I love this! I definitely feel the same. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like not blogging but I just can’t imagine it! x

    Jasmin Charlotte

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      Ha I think the same thing, like what would I do with all this extra time, then I think probably just watch to much tv, I will stick to blogging:)

  • http://crossinglemons.com/ Sam K Francis

    I love blogging! I agree it can be overwhelming, but its a product of love and passion for something so totally worth it!

    crossinglemons.com

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      A product of love and passion, well said!

  • Joann

    I really like your blog. I have learned a lot and I really like reading your personal stories. (I think I like personal stories on blogs the best.) Thanks for not giving up on it.

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I agree, I always enjoy the personal stories too. Thanks so much for reading Joann!

  • http://www.lilliansmall.com Lillian @ The Smalls Abroad

    Well said. I struggle with whether or not its worth it. Especially now as I’m still trying to gain traction and putting more effort into it. I like it and It is great but sometimes I think I could be out in the city exploring more and experiencing more first hand rather than staying behind a computer. Like anything though finding a balance is important. It really is an online journal… so many times my husband and I try to remember something we did or where we went that time two years ago and the it always come down to… check the blog.

    I had one when I moved to Australia for 6 months which I then turned into a blog book which sits on our coffee table. I’d love to turn my current one into something to keep in print but 2.5 yrs of content and pictures seems so daunting!

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      I love the idea of turning it into a blog book! I try and not turn down activities and time with friends and family for the blog, I use to think I needed to use all my free time for it, now I would rather cut back on the number of posts and just enjoy things :)

  • http://www.chocolateandsunset.com/ Summer

    Blogging friends are like real friends to me too ♥

    summerdaisy.net

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      They are the best :)

  • http://adventitiousviolet.com/ Camila @ AdventitiousViolet

    This is so true and I love this lovely homage to blogging! I definitely agree with all of them! It’s so great to have this journal and I’m always pushing myself to achieve goals and visit new places because of my blog which is great! And making friends through blogging has helped me so much, it’s been great!x

    • http://unlockingkiki.com/ Kaelene @ Unlocking Kiki

      It really is so great to have this journal to remember all our adventures on, and all the people you met through blogging is just the best!